Friday, October 23, 2009

I Love U..

Many of us have difficulties with those three little words. Those who have been "toughened" in their childhoods or by life will often be unable to say, "I love you." Some of us will place a huge barrier between ourselves and those words, a barrier such as: "I can't say them until I know the other person is my life-mate." Thus we fail to acknowledge that we have a problem. The difficulty with saying the words "I love you" without any feeling attached is also prevalent, and is particularly confusing to children. The ability to say the words "I love you" with feeling is essential. The ability to appropriately express those words in a nonsexual context to men, women and children is a good indicator of emotional health.